by Richard Dodge
If you’ve
taught a Bible study class for very long, you’ve had this unsettling
experience: An individual or a couple visits your class one time and you
never see them again. You may call to follow-up with them or ask if you can
come by for a visit, and they politely tell you, "Thanks, but no
thanks."
You wonder, What did I do wrong? What did I say? What was the problem? Once someone visits your class, what will help that person decide to return? Here are five ways to create an environment that draws newcomers back.
You wonder, What did I do wrong? What did I say? What was the problem? Once someone visits your class, what will help that person decide to return? Here are five ways to create an environment that draws newcomers back.
1. Build Relationships - The most frequent comment voiced by
newcomers who do not return is that no one spoke to them or was friendly toward
them. Class leaders must be intentional about drawing newcomers into the life
of the class as soon as they enter the room. Someone should be enlisted
specifically to welcome newcomers and to help them meet other class members.
Find a "host" in your class who can sit with the newcomers in class
and "adopt" them for the rest of the morning. It’s also helpful if
this "host" can continue to build a personal relationship beyond the
Sunday School hour by making a telephone call or a personal visit.
2. Make Your Classroom Warm - A good first impression is also important - both with people and the classroom appearance. The appearance of the class creates an atmosphere that is felt as you enter a room. Chair arrangement, items on walls and other decorations create an impression. Make sure your room is silent message is positive and warm.
3. Make Them Feel Important - Making newcomers feel important is vital. Here is a checklist to see if your class is accomplishing that task:
· Are they accepted?
· Do you call them by name once they have introduced themselves?
· Does your class use name tags to make sure newcomers learn members’ names more quickly?
· Are they given the resources they need to fit in, such as member books, newsletters and so forth?
· Are they invited to participate in any activities that might be discussed during the class they attend?
· Are they invited to enroll during their first visit?
4. Avoid Embarrassing Situations - Making newcomers feel welcome also includes avoiding embarrassing them. Never ask newcomers to read or pray aloud unless they volunteer to do so. Be careful what kind of questions you ask them to answer. Watch their expressions to see if something that is said causes an emotional response.
5. Be Prepared - This should be a given, but making sure your lesson is well-prepared makes newcomers more comfortable in class. If a teacher can help a class flow well, use a variety of teaching approaches and generally make the class interesting and meaningful, then newcomers will want to return. A discovery-oriented approach to learning is good because it affirms that each person has something of value to contribute to the discussion and encourages each person present to participate.
2. Make Your Classroom Warm - A good first impression is also important - both with people and the classroom appearance. The appearance of the class creates an atmosphere that is felt as you enter a room. Chair arrangement, items on walls and other decorations create an impression. Make sure your room is silent message is positive and warm.
3. Make Them Feel Important - Making newcomers feel important is vital. Here is a checklist to see if your class is accomplishing that task:
· Are they accepted?
· Do you call them by name once they have introduced themselves?
· Does your class use name tags to make sure newcomers learn members’ names more quickly?
· Are they given the resources they need to fit in, such as member books, newsletters and so forth?
· Are they invited to participate in any activities that might be discussed during the class they attend?
· Are they invited to enroll during their first visit?
4. Avoid Embarrassing Situations - Making newcomers feel welcome also includes avoiding embarrassing them. Never ask newcomers to read or pray aloud unless they volunteer to do so. Be careful what kind of questions you ask them to answer. Watch their expressions to see if something that is said causes an emotional response.
5. Be Prepared - This should be a given, but making sure your lesson is well-prepared makes newcomers more comfortable in class. If a teacher can help a class flow well, use a variety of teaching approaches and generally make the class interesting and meaningful, then newcomers will want to return. A discovery-oriented approach to learning is good because it affirms that each person has something of value to contribute to the discussion and encourages each person present to participate.
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